Des’s early years were defined by unimaginable challenges. Born into an abusive environment, he faced both physical and emotional pain at a very young age. A pivotal moment occurred when, as a young boy, he wagged school and was tragically assaulted by a stranger. Fearful of the repercussions for skipping school, Des kept this traumatic event to himself, and upon returning home, he was beaten by his parents for his absence. This heartbreaking cycle of violence, secrecy, and shame continued throughout his childhood. By the time he turned 12, his father had passed away, leaving him more vulnerable than ever. With no ability to read or write, Des dropped out of school and sought employment. However, this only led to further hardship when welfare became involved, and he was sent to a boys’ home where he faced even more abuse.

 

The years that followed were filled with turmoil. Des turned to alcohol to numb the pain, leading to numerous encounters with the law and several prison sentences. By the time he reached 38, Des found himself facing a 20-year prison term—twice the length of his co-offender’s sentence. It was a harsh and deeply unjust outcome, but it marked a turning point in his life.

 

During his time in prison, Des began to rebuild. It was here that he learned to read and write, skills that opened new doors and allowed him to reflect on his life with greater clarity. But more importantly, Des discovered the power of understanding and managing emotions. He realised that it was his unresolved emotional pain that had driven many of his destructive behaviours. This revelation sparked a personal transformation.

 

Today, Des has turned his life around in a remarkable way. He is the founder of Zumble Aid, where he helps others navigate their own emotional challenges and break free from the cycles of addiction, violence, and despair. Through his "Good Order Direction" (GOD) framework, Des teaches people how to understand the role emotions play in their decisions, guiding them to healthier, more fulfilling lives. Whether it’s alcohol, drugs, gambling, or other vices, Des’s program is designed to help individuals regain control over their emotions and, ultimately, their future.

 

Des Mullion’s story is a powerful reminder that no matter how dark life may seem, there is always a path to recovery. His journey from victim to mentor serves as an inspiration to all those facing adversity, showing that with determination, self-awareness, and the right support, it is possible to rewrite your story.